CRYING, CLINGY, SCREAMING and MAJOR TANTRUMS. Yes, I am talking about dealing with your toddler when they are over-tired.
I’m guessing most of you have had this happen, but if not, you may have this all to come!
Aurora is usually a happy child. She can quite easily amuse herself but when she becomes tired, its like all hell breaks loose and she goes all demonic on us. I wait for her head to literally rotate 360 degrees.
When toddlers become over-tired they don’t have a clue what they want to do with themselves (pick me up, put me down, I want juice, throw juice, cry for juice back). That’s generally how it goes with Aurora. Almost like walking on egg shell’s – this little human screams at you for absolutely no reason at all! What did I do!?
Getting Them For A Nap
Have you ever found getting a toddler for a nap easy? I’m quite lucky in this department as Aurora will nap in her cot without any problems, but it never used to be this way.
This girl could scream. It sounded like I was actually torturing the poor girl. Instead Mummy was just laying her down in her cot hoping she’d conk out to sleep.
She wouldn’t give in – constantly screaming. In the end I would give in and take her back downstairs, whilst she continues acting like a head spinning demonic creature so to speak.
I didn’t realise how hard it was to get a child to sleep. I know if I had the chance I’d take that nap myself.
Dealing With An Over-Tired Child
Sometimes it can be a handful, and to-be-honest quite stressful when our little ones are over-tired and refuse to get some sleep. Here’s a few things tried and tested that I’ve found seem to work when dealing with demonic Aurora when she just wont nap:
- Remain Calm (silently munching chocolate tends to calm my nerves).
- Distraction is definitely key! Finding something that will take their mind away from being tired – usually asking them to fetch a toy, but could be anything.
- Try to make them laugh (though tickling doesn’t always work. Can make them worse) – pulling funny faces and other similar expressions tend to work well!
- Extra cuddles always helps too.
- Last but not least, music! (this girl loves to dance). Find a song they love and blast it out!
To be honest its not only toddlers who seem to get moody when they’re over-tired. Faith and Wyatt can be a handful just as much, but they act differently to Aurora.
Faith just tends to cry at everything and seeing as Faith is a tomboy, she gets overly sensitive when she’s tired.
- For example: Last night Aurora refused to go to sleep straight away. Faith was not happy about this (they currently share a room). She grew very frustrated and upset, and had advanced to shout at her to get some sleep. This was unlike her as she’d normally fall asleep without reluctance.
Wyatt on the other hand is completely different again. He gets angry and answers back, and becomes very very clumsy.
I recall when he was 1 year old he fell asleep standing up against the sofa (that boy could sleep anywhere given the chance).
Dealing with those grumpy kids all at once is certainly challenging. For my oldest two, putting a DVD on and wrapping themselves inside a blanket on the sofa usually helps, but soon rejuvenates their energy enough to turn back into little tornadoes again.
If you have any stories you wish to share of your experiences with your over-tired toddlers or children, or just any tips on how you deal with them, feel free to drop a comment in the comments section below.
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