The Difference Between Men & Women and How We Think.

Mens and womens thoughts processes tend to vary quite a bit. Its when we try to interpret the opposite sex that mixed messages can result in problems. I talk about this and more in this post. Check it out here!

Have you ever looked at your spouse and wondered what they are thinking even if you have open conversations with them everyday?

Men and women think differently – it’s just how our brains are wired. Us women may think that men are generally down-right insensitive but men could also think just the same about us.

I’ve read an article recently about how we as woman may perceive men’s behaviour a certain way and I think we worry much more in relationships.

For example: Men usually need space occasionally, not to distance themselves from us but to get back their own sense of self being. When this happens however some women usually worry or panic thinking they have done something wrong because usually if a woman needs space, then there tends to be something bothering them.

Men think differently to the way women think. I’m quite guilty of this one myself. I guess i’m quite a sensitive person really. If Liam is quiet or doing his own thing I sometimes worry that i’ve upset him and just need that reassurance to know that we are ok.

On this article i’ve also read that woman usually take over with things.

For example: The cleaning, cooking, and the taking care of the kids.

We then tend to get frustrated or angry not having that help off our spouses. Perhaps we need to give men the chance to help out because men feel satisfaction by making their partners happy (For most cases).

I’m quite lucky in that way as Liam helps me out and even cooks the dinner every night. I used to enjoy cooking but i’m busy with other things and don’t really enjoy it as much as I used to.

There is a lot of differences between how women and men work. Men like to be problem solvers and think logically but sometimes us woman are run by our hearts instead of our heads which can lead us to be more emotionally decisive than men. That doesn’t mean men are not emotional either – they have feelings too like the love they have for their children.

The way Liam is with the children just makes me fall in love with him more everyday. He’s a complete natural with them all. There’s also the way he is with me sometimes. I have my ups and down days and he’s always there if I need him, even if it’s just for a cuddle to make me feel better. I can even rant at him about things that have annoyed me and he will simply listen to me.

So after I read this article it made me realise that yes, men and women are different. We do think differently but we all have deep emotions. Things affect us all the same. We all get angry, we all get upset and we all have love to give whether we’re a different sex or not.

So maybe the article is correct in some form but I believe not so much in others.

 

I would love to hear some input of what you all think on this topic in the comments section below!

 

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-Zoe

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Author: Zoe

Hi! I'm Zoe Williams. I am a mum of 4 children and I am in a happy relationship with my partner Liam. I like reading, writing and various other activities. I like spending time with the kids and now I am here to blog about it.

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